Mother Kali: Gifts from the Dark Goddess. ~ Durgaya Palmieri

Via on Sep 3, 2012

Kali takes from you what you have been hopelessly grasping onto

Kali comes into our lives with skulls around her neck, blood on her tongue and a skirt made of demon arms. Her skin is blacker than night, but don’t let her dark appearance fool you; this goddess is here to free you of your heaviest chains, untie your deepest samskara’s (karmic knots) and consume the darkness of your ego, all in the name of L-O-V-E. Kali takes from you what you have been hopelessly grasping onto, and don’t worry you won’t have to ask—not on any conscious level at least.

Kali was born from Mother Durga’s third eye in the heart of battle. She sprung forth to kill demons with her many arms and lick up their blood with her tongue. It wasn’t until her beloved Lord Shiva lay before her that she was able to stop and see that she had won the battle against the demons and restored peace to the world. Kali’s energy is often felt in full force when it enters our lives. She is here to lift the illusions (maya) that we hide behind.

A cycle of Kali in your life can be represented by one big event after another. These events may seem terrifying in the moment,  but as one illusion after the next is lifted from your life, you can find comfort knowing that in the long run, when you look back at what you have “lost” you will feel grateful. Bad relationships, attachment to money, addictions—these are no problem for the beloved Mother Kali. Thankfully, she is not afraid to fight for inner peace.

Kali is associated with destruction.  

Everything in life has a cycle, and an end is part of that cycle. When we hold on, and continue to throw ourselves under the bus for something that must end, we get stuck. When we are stuck, our thoughts and energy fester and we can dig ourselves into a hole we have no way of exiting. This is when Mother Kali enters our lives. When we must move on. When everything that is piled over us in our hole, everything that is holding us down in the mud must be lifted. When we are both hiding from and begging for change.

I have always felt intimidated by this dark goddess, while simultaneously being surrounded by her grace. Thanks to my guru, Ma Jaya, who had a way of getting to the heart of the matter without  letting anything get in the way.

We all have our own paths to walk with the many aspects of ourselves, whether we are comfortable putting form to deities or not. Mother Kali has entered my life many times and I can finally see her grace. I can finally say thank you for every killing and for every demon she has slayed. Not because I like the “fight,” but because I finally have a glimpse of what comes after the fight.

What are we left with when the Kali energy has taken away our burdens? We are left with a new start, a clean slate. Yes, there will be another battle, another knot to untie, but I’d rather spend a lifetime untying new knots than holding onto the same one for eternity.

Durgaya Palmieri is the creator and yoga instructor behind Kula Journal. Her love of yoga and community has lead her to the create KJ and to continue to seek out new contributors and readers who will enrich our yoga community with truly inspirational post, teachings and musings. Durgaya recently moved back to the spiritual community she grew up on, Kashi Ashram in Sebastian, Florida. For a full bio check out her Yoga With Durgaya bio page.

 

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Editor: Colleen Simpson

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7 Responses to “Mother Kali: Gifts from the Dark Goddess. ~ Durgaya Palmieri”

  1. Uma Simon UmaSimon says:

    Wonderfully written article about the Goddess Kali. Thank you.

  2. Lisa Tully LisaTully says:

    Nice article thank you. I am only recently discovering Kali and the little I know I can't help but draw similarities with her and Tibetan Goddess Green Tara who is both wrathful and loving at the same time. It is nice to know we have these feminine deities ready to help when we invoke them into our lives. All the best. Lisa

  3. cathy says:

    nice, thank you

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