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November 16, 2014

This is Why Positive Thinking Doesn’t Work.

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The notion of “think positive” has been spreading in the world at a good clip.

We hear this conviction almost everywhere, especially when we are faced with a problem of some kind.

As far as I know, many people have been disappointed from this practice. We all know that one person who wore himself out with daily positive thinking only to find negative outcomes.

I can’t but tackle here the period when the “law of attraction” went really viral. People rushed to start with this daily application in order to gain more money, potential lovers, out of reach careers and many other things we wish to have.

The law of attraction did succeed with some individuals, yet failed with the majority. Essentially what they did was sold us the notion of “think positive” without any further explanation upon the topic.

Why positive thinking works with some yet fails to thrive with others?

As we know, we all have two separate minds running our life: The conscious mind v/s the subconscious mind.

The conscious mind is the mind that knows what is going on, it’s logical and reasonable; in other terms it’s our awareness. I know that I’m breathing now, I know what I’m thinking now, I know which letters I’m typing at this exact moment… etc.

On the contrary, the subconscious mind is the mind that lies behind the conscious one. It is a database which is loaded with our memories and experiences. It is filled with predominant thoughts which we don’t have access to; we can only know some of its patterns mostly in our dreams.

We all have dreamt of this one particular event or one person and woke up pretty shocked. In our conscious state we wonder why we have dreamt of this person or that event when we are quite certain that neither he/she nor the event crossed our minds.

What we don’t realize is that indeed it didn’t cross our minds—our conscious minds, so to speak. But it definitely crossed the subconscious one which we know nothing about what it hides.

What the subconscious mind hides is mainly our whole world. This gigantic entity is successfully running our life without our consent. The sad news is that most of its hidden aspects are negative.

This is why positive thinking doesn’t work. To positively think about something in our conscious state which is negative in our subconscious mind is an absolute failure.

Suppose I am dreaming of having a brand new precious cellphone. In the past, every cellphone I got was either lost or broken. Today, I got a brand new one and I decided to be positive; in my conscious state I was certain that this one will be special.

In my subconscious state though, lies a whole different scenario. Due to the bad experiences I had with previous cellphones, a bunch of negative thoughts concerning this issue have been accumulated in my mind over time. As a result, my cellphone unexpectedly breaks and I wonder how this could happen when I practiced positive thinking perfectly.

Positive thinking has no room in a subconscious negative mind. It can only work if our subconscious was positive enough. It’s as simple as this: If our conscious mind sends positivity to our subconscious mind full of negativity, a great clash will occur—the positive vibes will go to nowhere.

Whereas if our conscious mind sends positivity to our subconscious which is positive in return, a successful intertwinement will take place and thus our wishes will come to life.

The good news is that there is a solution: if this is true, then the only positive thinking there can be is no thinking or less thinking.

We should take our subconscious mind as a computer which automatically saves any data that penetrates it. The solution is to stop feeding this huge computer. With time the data’s power will lessen and our subconscious can be somehow formatted.

The best way to format a subconscious mind is through meditation. One of meditation’s purposes is to drift us away from our incessant and destructive thoughts. Meditating twice daily for 20 minutes is a good start towards our subconscious’ programming.

Another solution is consciously stopping any negative thoughts which our subconscious mind can turn against us. You have to remember that the conscious mind works in parallel with the subconscious one. Hence, think positively only if you are cleaning the negativity that is subconsciously residing in your mind.

Thinking positively not only fails with a subconscious mind full of negativity but it also tires us to the extent of draining our good energy.

We should start to get in touch with the notion of “less is more”. And in this case, less thinking is more positivity and consciousness.

 

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Author: Elyane Youssef 

Editor: Renée Picard

Photo: Google images labelled for re-use  

 

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Sacha Greif May 2, 2015 8:06pm

I totally agree with the power of changing our negative thoughts to positive ones and feeling our vibrational frequencies rise. My awareness comes quicker and quicker these days, and I'm feeling lighter and happier. Thank you for all of the love and wisdom you share with the world!

Jai Nov 16, 2014 6:57pm

IMHO… I know lots of peeps who believe in the power of positive thinking… & yet I haven't met a single positive thinker who has ever cured a terminal disease, gotten rich, found the perfect job, or met the perfect mate by using positive thinking… other than the snake oil salespeople who have successfully marketed the fallacy of positive thinking to a gullible public in their books & tapes.

I challenge anyone on this website to name one authentic spiritual authority who has ever touted positive thinking. Hint: Deepak Chopra & Wayne Dyer don't qualify as spiritual authorities.

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Elyane Youssef

Elyane S. Youssef is an extraterrestrial who was given birth by Earthlings. While living on planet Earth, she fell in love with art, books, nature, writing, photography, traveling, and…pizza. Elyane finds her joy in backpacking and bonding with locals. To see the faces she interacts with on her travels, you can follow Face of the World on Instagram. Besides getting on and off planes, she is in a serious relationship with words and hopes to inspire as many people as possible through them. Once her mission is accomplished on Earth, she will return to her planet to rejoin her extraterrestrial brothers and sisters. In case you’re wondering, yes, she is still willingly obsessed with Frida Kahlo. You can connect with her on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. You can also check out her macrame art on Instagram.