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November 9, 2017

Star Comedian Latest to be Hit with multiple Sexual Abuse Allegations.

Update:

Louis C.K. has responded to the allegations by confirming that they are true and that he does not forgive himself for what he’s done. In the response Louis C.K. said that he rationalized his behavior by always asking permission before whipping it out, but now realizes that wasn’t enough. “I have spent my long and lucky career talking and saying anything I want. I will now step back and take a long time to listen.”
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Netflix has responded as well:

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And another one bites the dust…

Superstar comedian and actor Louis C.K. has become the latest in a string of revelations about powerful men abusing their power in sexually dysfunctional ways, according to a story by The New York Times today.

Five women have come forward so far, and, if the past is any indication, there will be more.

Louis C.K.’s upcoming movie release has already been canceled, as well as a talk show appearance, according to The Times article. The comic made $52 million last year according to Forbes.

The allegations against Louis C.K. all seem to surround reports of him masturbating in front of women. In one instance, after inviting two female comedians to his hotel room, he immediately took off all of his clothes and started masturbating.

“We were paralyzed,” Dana Min Goodman said afterward. She alleges that he ejaculated on his stomach, at which point they left the room.

Louis C.K. often jokes about masturbation in his standup routines, and once, after being introduced as a “masturbation aficionado,” debated a anti-masturbation Christian on Fox News.

Following the recent reports of Kevin Spacey and Harvey Weinstein having similar encounters with many men and women, we’re left thinking: who’s next?

Like Spacey, Louis C.K. is revered around the world, and both were highly respected in their crafts. While many found the tapes of Donald Trump describing his criminal behavior (and the 16 women who have gone public with their allegations of harassment) less surprising, it now seems that anyone in the public sphere could be the next one to have their secrets come to light.

This epidemic seems largely about power and a feeling of being able to get away with anything. This dynamic is common in domestic violence cases, but now we’re being shown that it happens serially, publicly, and to a shocking degree by more and more people.

But, there also is a deeper root than just a feeling of being able to get away with anything. Psychologically healthy people don’t behave in this way, even if they could. It seems like there is a combination of learned sexually deviant behavior coupled with a caustic and distorted view of oneself and others.

People who have a healthy sense of self and a sense of equality and compassion for others would not treat another person this way. Not only do we have to start having open discussions about how we view sex, ourselves, and others, we must start identifying people who need help, and working to make them whole again.

 

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Relephant:

Academy Award Winning Actor Latest to be Accused, Comes out as Gay.

Uncovering Our Inherent Dignity & Confidence.

The Power of Self-Worth.

Me Too: Another Woman Steps Forward.

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Author: Travis May
Image: Flickr/DonkeyHotey
Copy Editor: Callie Rushton

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Sally Goncalves Nov 15, 2017 6:25pm

Tam Gardner sometimes being mindful means looking at the big picture. If you read the full story and not just what the media likes to feed us then their alway going to be questions. As a female I would of left unless I was unable to and the girls were able to leave and they didn't. I also have a daughter and we have spoken about this issue and how girls/ladies have to be more vocal when something doesn't seem right and sometimes that means you say BACK OFF right away. The guy is definitely disturbed and I actually feel for him, he needs some serious help. What I have learned is hurt people hurt people.

James Long Nov 15, 2017 5:15pm

Travis May if you dont like it leave why did they go back to his room ?? if a women invited a guy back to her room and started touching herself no one would complain ....its up to the guy to stay or leave...... sounds like the women just want money ......

Danyk Jason Amyot Nov 15, 2017 11:17am

...And you have still have a dotard who confesses to grabbing pussy and SIXTEEN accusations of sexual misconduct against him still ruining the country. SMH.

Travis May Nov 13, 2017 5:58pm

Yeah, same here. :(

Marilyn Regan Nov 13, 2017 5:21pm

Another abuser bites the dust....

Marilyn Regan Nov 13, 2017 5:21pm

This is so disappointing. I was a huge Louis CK fan. I don't kow if I'm ever going to find him funny again.

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