This is For the Women Who Don’t Give a F*ck. {Adult}

Via on Aug 26, 2014

for the women.

Warning: F-Bombs ahead!

This is for the women who don’t give a fuck.

The women who are first to get naked, howl at the moon and jump into the sea.

The women who drink too much whisky, stay up too late and have sex like they mean it.

The women who know they aren’t sluts because they enjoy sex, but human beings with a healthy sexual appetite.

The women who will ask you for what they need in bed.

This is for the women who seek relentless joy; the ones who know how to laugh with their whole souls.

The women who speak to strangers because they have no fear in their hearts.

The ones who wear “night make up” in the morning or don’t own mascara.

The women who know their worth, who plant their feet and roar in their brilliance.

The women who aren’t afraid to tell a man to get the fuck out of her heart if he doesn’t honour her heart.

This is for the women who rock combat boots with frilly skirts.

The women who swear like truck drivers.

The women who hold the people who harass or wrong them with fierce accountability.

The women who flip gender norms and false limitations the bird and live to run successful companies giving “the man” a run for his name.

The ones who don’t find their success a compliment just because they have a vagina.

Women like Gloria Steinem who, when she was told, “We want a writer, not a woman. Go home,” kept writing anyway.

This is for the women who drink coffee at midnight and wine in the morning, and dare you to question it.

For the women who open doors for men and are confident enough to have doors opened for them.

Who use “no” to be in service for themselves.

Who don’t give a damn about pleasing the world, and do sweetly as they wish.

For the superheroes—the single moms who work three jobs to make it. I salute your resilient, cape-flapping, ambitious selves.

This is for the women who throw down what they love, and don’t waste time following society’s pressures to exist behind a white picket fence.

The women who create wildly, unbalanced, ferociously and in a blur at times.

The women who know how to be busy and know how to plant their feet in the earth and get grounded.

These are the women I want around me.



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About Janne Robinson

Janne Robinson is a Poet, bushwalker and animal activist currently residing on the Sunshine Coast, BC. She cuts kindling with her teeth, eats Bukowski for breakfast and makes the habit of saying the word feminist as much as possible. She loves the smell of freshly cut cedar, writing on airplanes, and whiskeys that swing their hips when they walk and know what they are doing. You can connect with her on TwitterInstagram and Facebook. Please also visit and connect with her Facebook writer's page.


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164 Responses to “This is For the Women Who Don’t Give a F*ck. {Adult}”

  1. Other Guest says:

    Is this guy serious? I’ll shove my size 13’s up his ass. Friends, your female big foot has arrived. Give em hell!

  2. Jenny says:

    YES! YES! YES! “Like” x infinity!

  3. Sarah says:

    This kind of woman also:

    -will do anything to support her family and friends, always willing to help when she can, and sometimes forgoing something important to her in order to be there for others.

    -will always stand up for others being treated unfairly.

    -will easily move on when she’s been hurt, and not seek to hurt that person back, though she holds them accountable.

    -realizes it’s not all about her, even though she values herself highly.

    Beyond the heavy makeup in the morning, the late night whiskey slinging, and combat boots, this woman has a deep sense of compassion for the world and values hard work, lots of fun, and meaningful relationships.

    And besides, for every woman who doesn’t give a fuck, there’s someone who does, and that person is driving her drunk ass home and tucking her in with a glass of water beside her bed.

    • jodie says:

      Sarah your additions to this list make it complete. Spot on and thank u and the author for reminding me of who I am

  4. Steve says:

    I love women like that, so much that I married one.

  5. Ronald Jones says:

    I agree totaly but, I’ve met very few.

  6. Coral says:

    As a 59-yo woman who had the spirit of the woman who didn’t give a fuck as you describe her here, I did not always know HOW to live true to self living with the shame and guilt that was dumped on me for being “different.” This also was a great reminder, even at my age, I can still go after what I want, even if I do scare the men away because they can’t quite handle it. I just haven’t found the ones that appreciate and honor the older women for what we bring to the table. ;-)

  7. dutch says:

    uhh is this for real? I guess the next new “feminist” movement.

  8. Maya says:

    :) all above is fine with moderation. And I did all of it. If you wanna hold a job then dont drink in the morning. Just saying.

  9. Damien Bohler Damien says:

    Fuck yeah. I love women like this.

    I have been consistently growing myself just so I can be big enough to meet a woman like this in ALL of her fullness.

    I want you.

  10. Amber Roper says:

    To the writer – be you a man or woman I would be happy to open a door for you, to smile knowingly as you pass by – with this writing the thank you for the gesture ;)

  11. james says:

    Now read this article and pretend its about men.

    It will open your eyes to the type of person this article is really describing… not someone you'd want to be surrounded by…

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